How we define it: Intimacy is closeness between two people.  Physical connection speaks to how a couple demonstrates their closeness in a physical way.  Sex is only a part of that demonstration, but it is a significant binder in that couple’s relationship.

What it means to you: Your partner and you probably already communicate about your physical connection.  Is it enough?  Is it too much?  This Physical Connection Love Lab gives you a chance to extend the conversation about how you deepen your intimacy through physical connection.

Love Lab Instructions: In this Love Lab you and your partner will explore each other’s feelings about the range of physical connections in your relationship.  The questions you ask will open lanes of communication and build on your already natural desire to have a better connection with your partner.    Please respect the responses received and appreciate what is shared (another Love Skill in play).   

In this skill it’s best to start with some easy questions.  You can ask more challenging questions in future levels of the game.  Here goes:

1.       What is your favorite way to be touched?

2.       Are there certain ways or times that you don’t like to be touched?

3.       Do you feel that we touch enough outside of the bedroom?  If not, how could we start?

4.       How can we say we’re not in the mood for sex without hurting each other’s feeling?

5.       How do you feel most comfortable telling me what you want?

A parting riddle:   I start with a “p” and end with “o-r-n.” I play a part of the film industry.  What am I?  Popcorn!